“I’ve learnt to let go and let God” – the delectable Nike Coker! #31Days31Writers

Posted: December 17, 2013 in A post a day
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Ahh!!! Sista Nike is a sista and half! You know that ‘all that and a bag of chips’ saying? Well, Nike Coker is easily all that, a bag of chips, a fruit, coke, and a chocolate bar! I met her on Facebook in 2008 as a young corps member who wanted to organize an event in Abuja to commemorate World Aids day. Someone said, ‘talk to Nike Coker, she knows everyone you’ll need’.

From that first unsure, greetings-laced message was  born a friendship and sisterhood that has stood the test of everything, least of which is time. I remember calling her one very cold day in 2010 to say I wanted to give up on my Masters and come back to Nigeria… Lol, I made a lot of people panic that day sha! Sista talked with me till her airtime ran out, then she called with her husband’s phone (with the everlasting airtime, lol).

When my aunty passed, she flew in from Lagos on the day of the funeral (my fault she didn’t come in the day before), and came to the funeral straight from the airport with her bags in the boot of the cab. She’d asked two mutual friends to come be with me at the service of songs a couple days before. What more could friendship entail?

I just love her. She’s great, down to earth, smart, accomplished, and I bless her today from the very depths of my heart.

Before this becomes a post in itself,  here’s the one and only Chief Sista! #TeamGrizzly

My name is Nike Coker-Babalola. I am a lady, married, a Nigerian and I work as communications/entertainment junkie, however I’m most popularly known as a defender of the Sistahood.  I initiated a yearly program for women in Abuja that focuses on bringing women out of their shells, learning a new skill or two and seeing the glass as ALWAYS half full no matter what situation they find themselves.

www.sistasistnigeria.net

Twitter : @sistasistanaija

Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/SistaSistaNigeria

One thing I’ve learnt this year? Be patient! Though that was never really a strong trait of mine but somehow I’ve learnt to let go and let God. I’m my own worst critic when it comes to projects, but being patient and letting issues run its course have helped me realise that the whole world can run on my own efforts alone. I ask for help when I need it and I’m not hurt when it doesn’t meet my exact needs at that exact time.

What’s one thing I’m grateful for? Family! The backbone to every society.  My very own cheerleading squad, the same people who will listen to my endless ideas (both plausible and slightly stupid), give me candid thoughts, arm wrestle me in tough arguments or call my bluff. I can’t toss them away even if I wanted to! My family is here to stay.

One thing I’d do different this year if I could? Make more phone calls. In the new world of Blackberry pings, Whatsapp  messages  and emails on the go…I know I have failed in follow-up phone calls.  That “out-of-the-blue” phone call that brings a smile on someone else’s face. Putting aside my issues to care for someone else. 2014 is round the corner, I intend to make up for that.

The Chief Sista!

The Chief Sista! Love you to bits!!

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Comments
  1. inyusadabs says:

    Sista Nike of Life!!!
    Carry go sista and keep touching lives. I thank God everyday for your life….I’m super proud of you!!!
    Love you plenty!!!

    Inya Ode

  2. And she’s beautiful too…wholesomely!
    Great lesson there! I like the Chief Sista. :)
    Bless her heart!

  3. Eunice says:

    Nike Coker Babalola, my Sister, Friend,Mentor and Earth- Mother to my Daughter. I have been touch by your love in more ways i can easily recount. God bless the day i met you and God enrich you. I love you scatter.

  4. Michael Philips says:

    There are very few people that will support you when you are nobody. Mrs. Nike is one of them. She has a very good heart. God will continue to bless her.

  5. bhumie says:

    Hmmm, she is so wonderful, met her online too via her friend, worked with her, wonderful woman, loving, caring,a sister to count on, my baby’s God mother, I luv her so much. I’ll go any lenght to see that she is always happy. thanks for been there always Sis. bam-bam luvs you, her mum luvs you and you can be sure Mr fabs does too!

  6. Wow! Am so proud to read all these wonderful words from lovely people about my sweet aburo. Always proud of you girl. Mwah

  7. Oladayo01 says:

    My sister in law of life. Much luv

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